For those of us who are most blessed, there are people for whom we would go to the ends of the earth without a second thought. On the list would be our children, at least. Some of us would name our lifetime’s 2 or 3 closest friends. Spouses might be on the list, but I sense that most marriages are more conditional than we admit! Occasionally, we learn of a promising young person whose life is compromised by tragedy or illness. We would, we say, give our lives in exchange for theirs, if it were possible. (But would we say this if it were possible? ) This ultimate self-giving is acted out on some level by living organ donors.
This week during a family experience of disappointment and loss, I knew that I would do anything to reverse negative outcomes for either of my children, at any time, if I could. I thought of a few others in this category. Rather than feeling noble, I realized how pathetically short my “would give my life for” list is despite the fact that these are the very persons whose lives make my heart sing!
My short list is shamed by the limitless love of God who gave life and love in ways small and great for friends and enemies equally.
And those who lose their lives will find it…
